How to Attract Women

 The secret to attracting women is to be attractive yourself. This doesn't mean you have to look like a model. Women are often initially attracted to great-looking people, but what they really want--what everyone really wants--is someone who is great to be with. Follow these steps to learn how to be a person who is great instead of merely great-looking.

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     Get in shape. You don't have to have a perfect body, but lose the extra pounds and lift a few weights. You want to look like a person who cares about his health, spends a little time outdoors and isn't afraid to sweat.
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     Pay attention to grooming--but not too much. A good haircut is attractive but one that needs a lot of product is not. The fragrance of your bath soap is more appealing than expensive cologne. Clean fingernails that aren't bitten down to the quick are just as attractive as those that have been filed and buffed. A clean T-shirt is better than stained and threadbare designer clothing.
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     Watch your table manners. Nothing is less attractive to a woman trying to enjoy a meal than having to watch her date talk with a mouth full of food and then use a beverage to wash it down. Learn how to hold a fork and where to put your napkin.
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     Look at your environment. You don't have to drive an expensive car, but you do need one in good condition and clean inside and out. The same advice applies to your home.
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     Acquire some interests. If you can only talk about work or television, you will soon become a bore. Take up a sport, get a hobby, volunteer in the community and read a book. Learn where the museums and parks are. Movie theaters and dance clubs aren't the only places to spend a weekend.
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     Be selective about companions. As unfair as it may be, you will be judged by the people you are with. If you are part of a group that is harassing the waitress, shouting profanities, picking fights or just getting falling-down drunk, you don't stand much chance of attracting a woman.
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     Be a good conversationalist. This means shut up and listen (good advice, by the way, when talking to anyone). If you show you're interested in more than the size of a woman's breasts, she will reciprocate by being interested in more than the size of your paycheck.

How to Have an Attractive Personality

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     Exude confidence. By projecting a confident and self-assured attitude, you tells others that they deserve respectful treatment.
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     Walk with a sense of purpose and head held high. When one has a destination or goal always in mind, they show the world that they are motivated and have clear direction.
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     Maintain a positive attitude even through adversity. Choosing to have a positive attitude despite what troubles occur can be magnetic to others who may have more difficulty seeing the brighter side of things.
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     Smile easily. It is easier to approach someone and feel comfortable with them if they appear to be happy; negative attitudes turn people away.
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     Live up to your word. Sincerity leads to mutual trust, and when one is trusted, he often is recipient of many positive relationships.
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     Maintain consistency in your attitude and behavior. Consistency is a sign of character and character leads to respect and attention.

How to Be Attractive & Beautiful

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     Engage in activities that boost your physical and emotional health. According to "O" magazine, people are more attracted to smiling faces, so doing what it takes to be happy is an important aspect of being beautiful. Exercise regularly, as it will keep you fit and fuel you with feel-good endorphins. Build up your confidence by taking part in activities you excel in. For example, if you enjoy writing, start a daily blog or work on your own novel. Volunteer as a way of giving back to the community. Sometimes being too caught up in your own issues can distract you from the more important parts of life and volunteering will help you put your own insecurities into perspective.
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     Maintain a nutritious, well-balanced diet. Eat plenty of fruits, vegetables and whole grains to ensure that your body gets all of the vitamins, minerals and oils it needs. Drink water throughout the day to keep your body hydrated. A healthy diet will reflect in your physique and complexion.
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     Set aside a weekly me-time where you can indulge in yourself for at least an hour. Take a hot bubble bath, go sit in a cafe and read a book or cuddle up with your favorite TV show. According to "The Daily Mail," stress can have a negative impact on your complexion and it is important to take time to relax. Use this time to reflect on everything you are grateful for and learn to enjoy your own company.
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     Use clothing and cosmetics to emphasize your best features and to reflect your unique style. For example, if your lips are one of your favorite features, try a bright red lipstick to give them a bit of a boost. Choose clothing that represents your personality. For example, if you are very studious and organized, try a clean-cut, preppy look. Or, if you are earthy and carefree, choose a more Bohemian look with mismatched, flowy attire. Use clothing and cosmetics as a reflection of your personality, not as a way of fitting in or defining who you are.